24 Weeks with Baby Number 6
Baby Nicknames: Baby.
What I am looking forward to this week: Well... something is coming down the pike, but I'm not going to say what it is. Stay tuned for an announcement though.
24 Weeks with Baby Number 6
Our little Lee Lee is age three and one her way to three-and-a-half. Because of that, she frequently tests the limits, boundaries, and rules of our home and our parenting.
Because she is our fourth child of five... truthfully, I am guilty of not always having the follow-through with her that I had with her older siblings... so last week I made a point to work on that.
I reminder her that Mama is the boss, Mama and Daddy are in charge, and when we ask her to do something, we only say it once and she is expected to obey -- otherwise there is a consequence for disobeying what Mama and Daddy ask.
She did well with my buckling down, and after a few trials where she wanted to know if I really meant it this time, she quickly became our sweet, relatively obedient little girl again.
One night, between dinner and dessert, she was given two choices of what she could do, and she wanted to to do her own thing. After a little back and forth, she and I went up to get in pajamas, and she was having some really big emotions.
She didn't throw a tantrum... but she was crying, and then she just took a deep breath and said, "Mama. It is so hard not to be the boss."
I was so proud of her ability to put that frustrating into words... it is so hard not to be the boss when you are a little one.
She went on to explain to me that she's just not big enough yet and so she's not the boss, but it is so hard to wait to be big to be the boss.
I love that little girls so much!
I have been doing a really great low-impact workout the past two weeks called Barre Blend -- it is a lot of dance and ballet and work at a bar (but French is Barre - because it is based on ballet).
I am NOT a dancer... but WOW, these workouts are hard.
As my barre, I've been using a step ladder... Hunter LOVES when he is awake during my workouts because he uses that time to practice his climbing -- three steps up and three steps down for 30 minutes.
I even caught on our camera when I was doing leg lifts and he was doing leg lifts at the same time.
On Tracey's 7th Birthday, she requested that we go to church that morning, go to brunch after church, open presents, and have spaghetti and meatballs for dinner and birthday pie instead of cake.
And that's just what we did.
I'm currently 23 Weeks with Baby Number 6, and I feel like the pregnancy is flying by... but I also feel like I'm still a long way from the finish line.
Tracey turned seven on Sunday, and we had a small birthday party for her on Saturday with some school friends.
We invited eight friends for some outdoor ranch fun and a horse-drawn trolley ride. Six friends came, plus one of Howard and Caroline's friends, plus Lee Lee (Hunter stayed home) and it was really a nice-sized party.
We woke up to a few inches of snow on the ground (after no snowfall since New Years) and it snowed off and on all morning... and off and on throughout the party. It was so much fun and the snow just made it more memorable for the kids. We told them that they were tough Colorado kids and they huddled under blankets and winter hoods.
It really was a great time.
Our first-born child, our beautiful, imaginative, creative, executive Tracey Ann is seven years old today!
This little girl is such a leader to her herd of younger siblings. She lives to make the rules, star in the show, direct the play, and manage the others. Thankfully, her younger siblings pretty much think the sun rises and sets on Tracey, so it all works itself out most of the time.
Tracey loves Bible stories and has such a heart for learning about Jesus.
Tracey loves art, animals, and babies. She loves school, swimming, music, and friends.
Tracey has a style all her own. She loves accessories, nail polish, makeup, hair bows, and "hair chalk". When she accentuates an outfit, she is not trying to look like a princess -- she is trying to look like a rock star.
Any time she gets her hands on my phone, I can be sure that 10-15 Tracey selfies with pouty lips or stylish eyes will be waiting for me on my camera roll.
Tracey has such a special relationship with each of her siblings -- she and Howard are incredibly alike. Howard is her competitor and the two alternate between loving the same games and playing really well together and bickering like crazy or Howard doing anything to pester Tracey.
Tracey and Caroline have their moments of playing for intricate games of house or restaurant or joining forces against Howard, and times of peacefully seeking their own interests and giving each other space.
Tracey and Lee Lee have a very distinct big sister/little sister relationship. Tracey plays gentler with Addallee than she does with Caroline and Howard and she looks out for Lee Lee in a very loving and protective way.
And finally Tracey adores Hunter. She loves that he is her baby brother. She takes great pride in helping with him in a way that her other siblings cannot because they are not old enough yet. She loves to make him smile and laugh and is very proud when she can make him happy.
With one more baby on the way, I am very glad that Tracey has set such an example as the oldest in our family, that we love younger siblings. Never once in her life has she even hinted at resenting or disliking being a part of such a large family. She has even been known to look at my out of the blue and thank me for all her brothers and sisters.
Happy Happy Birthday, Tracey Ann! I love you like crazy and I can't wait to see what God has in store for you at age 7!
Hubby bought our family a new fire pit for Christmas... in fact, it was pretty funny because it was hidden in our trailer because it was a surprise to me too. Hubby opened up the trailer and unloaded it... and loaded up our old fire place/pit. It caused QUITE a racket.
I immediately thought that I hoped Hubby didn't wake up the kids... the neighbors immediately texted me and asked if we were okay -- they were afraid someone was breaking into our house. LOL.
I texted back that it must be Santa -- "out on the lawn there arose such a clatter".
All that to say, a few nights ago, we tried the fire pit for the first time. It works... sort of. We never needed lighter fluid with the old fire place. Hopefully the problem was the wood and next time the fire will take off a little better.
Hubby and Howard went out to light the fire, and then came back inside for a few minutes. Then five or so minutes later, Hubby asked Howard how the fire was doing, and Howard looked out the window and said, "Its gone!"
Half a bottle of lighter fluid, and some very impressed children later, the kids were able to roast marshmallows.
For your info -- we highly recommend the marshmallows with a Hershey's kiss inside. All the taste of a s'more with MUCH less mess!!!
Don't let his short legs and his wobbly walk fool you... this little boy really is well into toddler antics. He has let me know this week in no uncertain terms that he is no longer a baby but a full blow little boy who wants to get into everything.
A few days ago, I was sorting laundry in the basement when Howard called me upstairs. I told him I was sorting laundry and I would be up in a few minutes and he calmly, but emphatically suggested I come upstairs now.
I went upstairs to find Hunter standing on the top step of a three-step step ladder. The step ladder was in the kitchen, and the kitchen gate was closed when I went down to the basement... but at some point of the few minutes I was downstairs, the gate was left open and Hunter was thrilled to show off his climbing skills.
The next day, as I was getting the twins ready for school, I found him determined to load nerf darts in Howard's nerf gun. Just last week, he was eating the nerf darts, but now he knows exactly where they belong and apparently he is determined to give his big brother strong competition in a fun nerf war.